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Overlooking Chennai from St. Thomas Mount

Our first Auto Rickshaw ride!

Playing with some of the kids at SOS Children's Village

A beautiful temple we visited

Participating in a Hindu baby shower

Receiving our honorary shawls at SBS

ATVing on the Beach!

The fishing boat we rode in, and got soaked

Aside from staring, we get a lot of Indians trying to be sneaky with the camera. Sometimes they ask, but most of the time, they just snap away. When Dr. K tries to assemble us all to get a "money shot" as he calls it, we tend to attract a pretty big crowd with far more cameras then we intended. So, I thought I would share some of my own from Chennai and this past weekend on Ideal Beach.

This one time, in India...

I feel like all good stories start with "One time..." I also promised I would chronicle all my cross-cultural mishaps with this blog.

Ergo, number one of many that I'm sure to have in India.

Here's some necessary background info:

We've been meeting with tons of professors, community leaders, NGO founders and employees and government officials. Today, Dr. K informed us that we would be meeting the speaker of the house for Tamil Nadu. In India, the state government alone is huge and welds a lot of power, unlike the United States. This would have been a completely rare and exciting opportunity and then the Americans got a little confused.

First, we were invited into his bungalow where we received welcome shawls, as per south Indian tradition and welcoming statements and introductions were made. Completely normal since it was the usual custom for all our Indian events. 
Soon, we found ourselves facing the giant TV in the room, (which was pretty cramped with all 15 of us, plus government officials and the help) bombarded with news clippings of the speaker of the house as he recorded us sitting there watching TV.
We then proceeded to re-watch said recorded video onto a projector.

So this is what it looked like; 15 tired American college students, uncomfortably crammed into a room watching with confused looks on our faces, a video of ourselves, still doing the exact same thing, just five minutes prior, as tea, coke and cookies were constantly handed to us.

Once he answered a few questions and told us a few more strange stories, we clapped (side note: I'm pretty sure Indians think Americans clap for everything because that's what we would do to fill awkward silences during lectures...turns out clapping doesn't mean something is finished, it means keep going. Oops, only took us a week to figure that out.) and stood up thinking it was time to leave.
All of the sudden, we were ushered into his office, an even smaller room, where we watched more of his videos.

This is where it gets really strange. Since none of us speak Hindi or Tamil we couldn't understand anything in the Bollywood style videos he was showing us, all while we sat in his office, which was covered in far larger than normal portraits of himself.
We later learned that it wasn't a Bollywood movie, but rather propaganda-like campaign commercials with terrible super imposed graphics and effects in Tamil. Very North-Korea style. The self-portraits were just an  added bonus.
We were awkwardly forced to eat more cookies, drink more chai and were encouraged to continue clapping until we were able to finally find an excuse to leave.

The entire time we were afraid to laugh or make a peep, thinking we would offend someone. Instead when we got back on the bus, Dr. K burst out into the most ridiculous giggle fit and yelled. "I don't know about you, but that guy was a freaking nutjob!"

I can't tell you a single thing about the local government structure in Tamil Nadu. But after today I can tell you:

1. Clapping does not mean the same thing in India.
2. All older people get really excited when they figure out technology.
3. You should probably gather some background information before you watch something in Tamil or Hindi.
Finally: I am, by nature, prone to awkward situations. I apologize if this affects anyone reading in the future.

                                                         - Kaitlyn

Chaos and Consistency.

If I'm being honest, I haven't blogged as much because the first few days in India were difficult. Really difficult.  I struggled. Like I said before, I didn't want to have any expectations for the trip, because I knew there really wasn't anyway to prepare for what I was going to experience. It was a huge culture shock.

Landing in the airport was overwhelming. All I heard was Tamil and nothing about a single word I heard or a sign I saw was recognizable or the least bit familiar.

My blonde hair and light skin covered in my western clothes stood out in the sea of colorful saris as I tried to deflect the curious stares that I couldn't handle at 4 in the morning.

Nothing was familiar and I was scared. I wanted to go home.

Did I make a huge mistake? Why did I say that I didn't "need" to study in Europe. What made me think I could handle myself here? Why in the heck did the wasp-y college girl from the U.S. think she could do it? What in the world (pun intended) was I trying to prove?

Luckily, despite the whole British-airways-trying-to-screw-me-over-oh-my-gosh-I'm-having-a-life-crisis-in-a-period-of-five-seconds-I'm-scared-how-do-I-properly-communicate-without-getting-arrested debacle, I was able to find the other students on my flight, get through customs and get our bags (with only one missing, that later arrived) fairly easily.

Once I caught up on sleep and adjusted to the culture shock though, I began to see India for what it really is.

There's no way to truly describe India that could really do it justice. I'm sure over the next four weeks I'll be seeing and doing things I would have never expected.

There's nothing familiar about it, but occasionally, I find little glimpses of comfort that I recognize and hold on to throughout the entire day. It's beautiful and heart-breaking, ancient, dirty, and happy. It's so much more complex than I could ever explain. It would probably take way too long to really explain everything I've experienced and am experiencing. I'm still processing and trying to understand. So allow me some grace in using this blog to figure out what India is to me.

I'm still not sure what my purpose here is, but everyday I'm seeing a glimpse of the eternal kingdom and a reminder that I'm right where I'm supposed to be for the time being.

I'm learning and really loving it here. It's changing my perspective to see so much of the world through the eternal perspective of mercy, compassion and grace.

"I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength." - Philippians 4:12-13


                                                           With Love,

                                                             Kaitlyn

Fifteen Minutes of Fame

Yesterday I ate a meal off a banana leaf without any silverware, signed a bunch of "autographs", was an honored guest at an Indian school  and to top it all off, was on a national Indian news program. The hospitality in India has been overwhelming and visiting Sethu Bhaskara school was no different.

Definitely things that can be crossed off my unexpected bucket list.

I couldn't stop smiling the entire day because the look on every child's face was pure elation and SBS was a prime example of vision and purpose at work. I've come to the conclusion that at least in south India, if you're white, because it's so uncommon in a non-tourist city like Chennai, Indians bend over backwards for you. It's incredibly endearing and I'm immeasurably appreciative of it, because as college students we don't deserve it in the slightest.

It's difficult for me to really capture everything that's happened over the past seven days, but my friend Stacy wrote a great post about yesterday's events:
No Autographs Please

The Bucket List

      I have an ongoing unofficial bucket list going on in my head. Mostly, it's cool things I want to do or try or things that I decide are bucket-list worthy once I've already done them or am in the midst of doing them. Some of them include, Eating fish and chips in a pub in the UK. (CHECK!) eating a macroon from Laduree in Paris, going to India (CHECK!), learning to paddle board, and snorkeling off the coast of Africa and other various travel activities. I feel like at some point I should actually write them down  and make an official bucket list, especially because I love lists so much, but after today, I think this is one that can definitely be crossed off my unofficial bucket list so far: Riding an auto rickshaw through Indian traffic.


This is what an auto rickshaw looks like:

And this is what the Indian traffic looked like today. For example, it took us 2 hours to drive 20 miles:  

      
(Hopefully, I'll be able to upload the video from today's adventures, but the internet here is a little spotty.)

                                                                  XOXO,

                                                                 Kaitlyn

Update!

Arrived at the Madras Christian College Campus in India, safe and sound and with all my bags!

Farewell, Again.

Just a quick update on my time in London before I head to India tomorrow!

"By seeing London, I have seen as much of life as the world can show."

Tonight is my last night in London, then I'm off to Chennai tomorrow afternoon! It's a ten hour flight and I'll be landing at 3:30 am India time, so there will definitely be some jet-lag. Luckily, there are a few other students that will be arriving in London from Miami en route to Chennai, so we'll all be on the same flight.

I absolutely loved London, and definitely want to come back some day. Everything here is beautiful and I don't even mind the weather! I loved the city, the history, the busy-ness, the people, the accents, the culture and the fashion. Seriously, everyone here is so trendy, I love it. I could sit in Covent Gardens and people all day long. More on that later, because I am OBSESSED with the clothes here. Wicked was also INCREDIBLE. Hands down probably my favorite show I've seen. I had chills and can't stop singing the songs. Everyone should see it.

I'm so immeasurably thankful for these opportunities and the fantastic hospitality of my aunt, uncle and cousins. They went above and beyond to make sure I had a great time and are seriously the best.

Now the adventure really begins and I can't wait! Hopefully I'll be able to update once I'm settled at MCC.

For now, here's some pictures from my hop across the pond.

                                                                  With Love,

                                                                     Kaitlyn